I've been on over 1,000 flights. Born in Ecuador, raised everywhere — airplanes were how I lived my life. By 18, I'd logged more flight hours than most pilots.
And yet, I have a fear of flying. It's the biggest irony of my life.
The moment everything changed
It started on a flight from Singapore to Nepal. I was 18, crossing the Himalayas, when severe turbulence hit. I'd felt turbulence hundreds of times before. But this time I looked at my friends — the terror in their eyes, the white knuckles, the gasps.
"Their fear poured into me."
I didn't know it then, but I'd just caught a phobia.
11 years of fighting my own brain
I'm 29 now. In the years since, I've taken 300+ more flights. Never stopped — couldn't. But every flight became a negotiation with dread.
I tried everything. Drinks before flights. Medication. Distraction apps. Researching aircraft engineering until I knew more than most flight attendants.
None of it helped — because fear of flying isn't a knowledge problem. It's a nervous system problem. And knowing the statistics doesn't rewire your brain.
What actually worked
I finally stopped trying to think my way out and started working with my brain instead of against it.
Within weeks, something shifted. I booked a flight without the familiar dread. Slept the night before. Felt fine at boarding. Flying started becoming what it was for my first 18 years: boring, unremarkable transportation.
My philosophy: your goal isn't to eliminate fear — it's to stop fear from running your life.
ReadytoFly is built on that principle. Short daily sessions, research-informed techniques, no medication required. Simple, private, and designed by someone who actually gets it.
— Martin, Founder